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Sorry, that just popped into my head as I sat down to type this.

I actually have to write about something else, and maybe get the perspective of a female reader, or two.

Just so you know, this blog maybe rated at least PG-13. I normally don't write about sex, but I have questions. If you want to avert your eyes, now is the chance.

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My wife and I have a somewhat diierent sex life. Don't worry, it's not kinky, alternative or anything like that. It is more about how we go about it.

We almost never have actual intercourse. This is due to 4 contributing factors.

1) We will not risk her getting pregnant again. She has 4 large fibriods that make the chance of a birth defect extremely high. We did not realize this, or her OBGYN did not explain it to her properly before La Nina was born. We got lucky, but we do not want to push our luck. It will take a coplete hytrerectomy to get rid of them.

2)She cannot take birth control, bucause when she has in the past, it has cuased severe migraines. After she stopped, they all but went away. She still takes atenenal to help, but hey have, for the most part, stopped.

3) Latex, as in a condom, really iritates the membranes...uh...down there.

4) We cannot afford to have me fixed, yet. I have no problem with doing it, as it would keep her from going under the knife, but money is a little tight right now.

We do find other ways to please each other. I have become an expert with getting her to "achieve" with my hands and mouth. She is good as well.

My question is this. She tells me it is enough for her for now, but despite Saturdays call, she isn't in the mood very often. Is it really enough? Does she get disappointed that we can't go for the gusto?

I am okay with it, because I know it is best for our circumstances. But how is it affecting her emotionally?

I want to make her happy in everyway possible, but I just am not sure she is happy with that aspect of it.

If this doesn't work, I will try "Dear Abby"

Later,

Deej